Finding answers to the question “Is there any chance of getting back together, has always been tasking. There are love gurus claiming that their system has worked for hundredths of couples who love, lost and found their way back together, but do they really help? Well, one thing is definite; this is not an easy question. In the same light, it has a rather lengthy process for positive answer.
First, you have to understand that there is no hard and fast rule when it comes to matter of resolving heart issues. Everything you do is dependent on the relationship climate you have built; you are trying to build and one you intend to surround yourself for the rest of your life. Then again, the same climate will depend on the interplay of differences, agreements and capacity of the partners to nurture the relationship and nourished the same with love, understanding, compassion and reason for existence.
Nevertheless, there is a chance of getting back together with your ex for as long as you set up a repair strategy that will open the doors to welcoming his/her back to your arms.
Various Approach In Repairing Relationship – The First Dose
Approach No.1 – The No Contact Approach (NC)
The basic rule here is to leave all forms of contact or getting in touch with your ex of any kind. There are various forms of making this successful. Abstinence will make it easier for you stop setting up “persuasive” conversations that will tend to push them away from you.
Apply this approach only if you and your ex live apart from each other or you have no underlying reasons or excuses to approach him or her. There are several reasons that you will be forced to communicate even if you can impose the no contact approach, so before using this strategy, ensure that there are no obligations or responsibilities that will be affected. Employ also this approach if your ex is already dating someone else. Avoid using this approach for short-term relationship, prolonged break ups, short breaks, when you want her back or when the break up was the result of your inability to commit to a deeper commitment or deeper connection.
Approach No. 2 – The Limited Contact Approach (LC)
Limited Contact is ideal for those who cannot fully stay physically away from one another because of underlying circumstances and set up that warrants their interaction in pressing situations or regular occasions. Working or living together makes it impossible to apply the NC rule, more so if you have children or a pet that you have bought together or you attend similar activities or class together, hence this alternative.
Approach No. 3 – The Limited Adjusted Contact (LAC)
This approach is a combination of both NC and LC. This approach is to be employed when you initiated the break up, when your relationship is nearing a break up, when your marriage is at the brink of divorce or separation, and when the reason of your ex for breaking up with you is due to your commitment failure and/or on account of your inability to focus in one relationship (still dating another).
Approach No. 4 – The Full Force Contact (FFC)
This approach is to be used only in Ultra Short Term relationship. This approach is the exact opposite of the No Contact Approach.
Approach No. 5 – The Renewed Contact Approach (RC)
This is the approach one should used when the break up has lasted longer than expected already and you have enormous amount of time to reflect on how you want, need and desire your ex to be with you again. This is more effective if during the break up you never initiated any type of contact towards your ex.
How to Make These Approaches Work
To affect these approaches toward you intentions of gaining back your ex attention, you have to tilt the scale of attraction, interest and curiosity towards you. You have to reverse the situation to your advantage. You have to regain the control and power back in your relationship.
The purpose of communication lines being cut off is to make them have their space and yours and at the same time make, them miss you, wonder what you are doing and ask what you want the most after a certain period of time. Communication lock down is an elemental feature of the Push and Pull Theory in recovering back your ex.Do you want your ex back? Make sure you watch this video... Do NOT commit one of the 7 deadly mistakes or they might leave you for good... find out how to avoid it here: Click here to check out the video to get your ex back.